When you call me, you are entering a world where you have an unrestricted and unlimited forum where you can freely and openly express yourself, telling me things you would never share with anyone else. The “secrets” you reveal to me are never disclosed or otherwise revealed to anyone else, as your privacy is of utmost importance to me, and, hence, you are granted an exceptional outlet protected by an implicit trust that will never be broken. No one will ever know what conversational topics transpire between us – whether it is about your fantasies and fetishes or your real life. It’s all about trust and privacy – and that is a two-way street.
While I respect your privacy and firmly set boundaries, I expect you to honor my own personal boundaries in return. In my phone relationship with you, I am an open book and brazenly authentic. You are not talking to a caricature, virtual representation or skewed version of “me”; what you hear and what I share with you is who I am. I allow you to know and see me in a very uncensored and honest way. That is me, my style, and how I choose to operate. If you wish to experience that, you play by my rules.
Regardless of my style and the possibilities of interpretations, I strongly value and appreciate the dividing line between our (your) fantasy world and the real world in which we live. The actual separation of fantasy/real world from my perspective is non-negotiable for the safety and security of each of our private lives; therefore, meeting in real time and calling me on my personal telephone number are not options.
It is up to you to decide how much you understand and value just what it is that I am offering you – and that very same sense of respect is what I expect in return.
~~~Samantha
