Understanding Crossdressers: The Bond Between Crossdressers and Women

The specific history, evolution, preferences, desires, and experiences of each crossdresser is very unique and individual. Given that fact, it stands to reason that no two crossdressers are the same in who they are, where they’ve been, what they want or what they need. While “group” support is an essential part of any group who is considered a minority or “different” in some way, there ARE individual differences that must be acknowledged, appreciated, understood, and accepted in each person, and -just because people may belong to a certain misunderstood group- it does not mean that any other random member of that group can immediately or easily relate to the particular individual in question. The experience is like that of any other group whose members share a particular characteristic, affinity or collection of traits: Just because you are a crossdresser does not mean your experience is just like that of any other. YOU need to be appreciated, accepted, and understood for who you are in your uniqueness and individuality. While many women may not “get” you, it doesn’t mean that there are no women who will adore and accept you for you. I speak this from personal experience…

During some of our recent conversations, my star feminine submissive Nina has been discussing with me a point that I find very discouraging and, frankly, sad. She has joined a crossdressing chat community who -it would seem in her assessment- feel that only crossdressers can understand and accept other crossdressers. Again, group support and acceptance is very important, and that comeraderie does provide an invaluable safe haven. However, as a woman who adores, appreciates, and is exceptionally intrigued by men who crossdress, I want to adamantly express an opinion that many crossdressers may not find in their day-to-day lives: As a woman, I do appreciate how big a role dressing and expressing your femininity is a part of who you are, I WANT to understand you as the special person you are, and I WANT to encourage you in the integration of your desires to crossdress into your daily life. I get being different, misunderstood, and arbitrarily judged, and I want you to see that it does not have to be that way.

You see, crossdressers are my favorite population with which to work, and I enjoy each and every single one incredibly. I have been in the phone business for years and have found that there is no more overall diverse, delightful, intriguing, colorful, and beautiful group of callers than my crossdressing clients. By the same token, so many crossdressers cling tightly to the fear that NO ONE -especially not a woman- will fully accept them for who they are, support their efforts and goals or truly understand how deep and profound the expression of femininity is to them. While these fears are certainly valid, they are simply not entirely true – and I make it a priority of mine to show those interested in developing and furthering their feminization efforts that a woman’s touch can do wonders for their expression and experience.

I have made it a mission of mine to show my crossdressing clients that I DO understand and am here to help. Whether it is helping you explore how dressing and feeling that exquisite sense of femininity became such an integral part of who you are each and every day; advising you on how to increase and maximize your experiences before, during, and/or after dressing; working with you on how to communicate your needs and desires to a partner; or simply giving you a safe haven where you can let your femininity burst forth and run wild – I guarantee you a place where being dressed and brandishing your femininity is not only allowed but it is adamantly prompted, encouraged, and -at times- even demanded. Time with me is a time of feminine freedom, joy, and liberation – whatever your own personal style, flair, and expression.

Don’t just take my word for it. Ask Nina Paige – and then ask yourself why you are depriving yourself of ferreting out a woman whose goal is your well-being and happiness. We’re out there; you just have to find us…