This one is for my backdoor boys! If you have read much about me on my blog, it should be quite obvious how much I think every man should enjoy his own ass. Toss the ridiculous notion that “OMG! I can’t possibly indulge myself and play with my ass because it might ‘mean something.’” That is simply ludicrous, and those of you who have ventured into AssLand know all too well that such an assumption is simply nonsense, a result of one’s own hang-ups, and leads to missing out on an amazingly ecstatic experience. Let’s face it: We ALL have asses, and whether and how we opt to take pleasure in using them is nothing more than an individual choice – one that can make those orgasms feel like a rocket blasting into space!
Assplay: Dildo Training, Strap-On Sex, and Sex Toys
Some of you have thus far only gotten your assplay groove on in your private time, and it should go without saying that it is essential that you know what you like and how you like it before you ask someone else to join the fun and help you achieve new heights of pleasure. While digital stimulation is an excellent place to begin your explorations, it is completely natural to want even more! This is the time when you want to begin building your ass arsenal, starting with something simple -like a small plug, vibrator or suction-cup dildo- to put you on the path of “opening you up” to more backside bliss. This is a time when dildo training, administered by a knowledgeable, well-versed, and responsible woman/Mistress, can be an incredibly helpful adjunct to your anal activities.
Now, I know there are many of you who have experimented and are now quite well-versed in the language of ass elation. You know just how to pace yourself, what feels really good, and just how far you can push yourself at this point in time. You may be happy with the status quo – or you may be ready to push those boundaries even farther. Sometimes this is the point when you want to go with something a bit larger or more “interesting” – or, if you haven’t do so yet, you would very much like to have a partner join you and take the reins of your ass play into her hands. Perhaps you have even begun to wonder how being penetrated with a strap-on might feel.
At this point, having a well-trained Mistress guide and instruct you in more advanced assplay techniques -even outlining the joys of strap-on sex- can provide you with the additional knowledge, motivation, encouragement, and support in pushing your boundaries. Such a woman can also coach you in how to go about finding a partner with whom you can participate – or even discuss and suggest ways in which you can delicately broach the subject with your current partner. Communication along so many different avenues is key at this point, and having an educated and understanding guide assist you in doing so effectively can add to or bring you brand new delights into your sexual experiences.
Maybe you are curious and find that part or all of these descriptions intrigue and excite you. You know this is something you would at least like to try, but you don’t know where to start. This is where you need -and deserve!- an open forum, where you feel comfortable, safe, supported, and free of any judgment. Building a foundation of solid communication and trust is also essential. This is where I come into the picture…
Whatever your questions -from the most basic to the intricate and complicated- I have answers that I am more than happy and willing to share with you. Again, I do love a man who loves his own ass, and my mission is to help you derive the most exceptional experience you can, both alone and with a partner. We’re each ultimately responsible for our own happiness and getting what we want. Now is the time for YOU to grab the bull by the horns and realize that exquisite exhilaration that ass play can bring to your sexual escapades – so let’s get to it!
